Drawing out those early touches, those first stray hands, builds excitement and anticipation and confidence. This can be the most intimate part of sex. There’s so much you can do to get comfortable and excited - even before the clothes come off. The full range of intimate body-on-body experience is yours to use, so don’t feel like you have to fit into a prescribed, hackneyed script, which you may think goes something like this: make-out session, followed by a blow job, then possibly a rim job, with a finale of penetrative sex that ends in orgasm.
